Tuesday, June 10, 2014

STRONG AT THE BROKEN PLACES



In a "Farewell to Arms," Ernest Hemingway wrote:  "The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places."

We encounter many occasions of 'brokenness' during our lives:  promises, resolutions, friendships, dreams, bodies, hearts.  What we do when faced with these tests of spirit, will and endurance separates those who surrender and quit from those who embrace the point of brokenness, look it square in the face and move on to endure.

The latter qualities are typical of an endurance athlete.

Dr. Scott Logue, team doctor for the Chicago Wolves who has completed two Ironman laces and nearly 30 marathons, knows a thing or two about endurance. Dr. believes that in order to endure, we must look within to find the will to persevere through the pain and difficulty, in physical matters as well as emotional and spiritual situations.

"You have to know and tell yourself that at some point, whether in training or in life, the dark moments are inevitable and that there will be difficulty," he says.  "But, if you can persevere through them, you will feel good again.  You will, in fact, feel better having gone through it."

But how do you look within?  What exactly does that mean?  The Japanese Marathon Monks of Mount Hiei, who perform an incredible 1,000 days of long distance runs as part of their training in Tendai Buddhism, can she some light on endurance.

Here is their training schedule:

By the year:

  1. 100 consecutive days of marathons, beginning at 1:30 a.m. each day after an hour of prayer
  2. 100 consecutive days of marathons
  3. 100 consecutive days of marathons, performed twice
  4. 100 consecutive days of marathons, performed twice
  5. On the 700th day, the monks undergo a nine-day fast without food, water, rest of sleep before having a short rest of a few weeks and increasing their grueling schedule
  6. 100 consecutive days of 37.5 mile ultramarathons
  7. 100 consecutive days of 52.5 mile ultramarathons, and 100 days of marathons

They train in this extraordinary, otherworldly manner in order to push the limits of human endurance in search of a higher plane of spirituality.  The monks are not training to run per se.  They embark on their grueling sever-year ultra-endurance training to teach the mind to ignore physical, emotional or spiritual distractions.  Most sports psychologists agree with this traditional Eastern philosophy that espouse that the mind rules the body.  The mind almost always quits before the body in training.

While the Japanese monks and other people look within to find the will to carry on, others look to friends, training support groups, family or their faith.  Regardless of the source one accesses to find the strength to continue despite insurmountable odds, adverse conditions or matters that test your strength, will and faith:  access it!  Dig deep into that well and move through whatever test of endurance you face.  And you will, as Hemingway said, become stronger in the broken places.

Maryilene Blondell
mychicagoathlete.com




Sunday, March 16, 2014

The Power of a Goal, father-son story nonpareil


MINNEAPOLIS -- After 50-year-old Steve McKee was diagnosed with an incurable form of cancer last year, his oldest son Mitch took it upon himself to try to make the disease disappear -- if only for a moment.



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Mitch McKee
CBS News
"Kind of flush it all away and kind of have him forget about it for that moment, and have everybody forget about it for that moment -- just be happy," Mitch said.
 It was a plan only a 15-old boy could dream up. Knowing how proud dads can be when their sons do well in sports, Mitch, a wrestler, decided he would try to win the Minnesota state high school wrestling championship for his dad, even though Mitch was only a freshman at the time.

"He might not be here next year, so I knew that this was the year to do it," Mitch said.

This colossally ambitious undertaking began in weight room. All summer, Mitch got up every morning at 6:00 a.m. to lift. And he practiced -- even when there wasn't practice, he practiced. As a result, Mitch won his first match of the season -- and his second.



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Steve McKee
CBS News
In fact, the kid won so many matches, he not only qualified for the state tournament, he made it to the finals. And this was it. All he needed to do was win this one last match, and he'd be the state champion in his weight class. All he needed to do was pin this one last opponent, and that cancer -- for one moment -- would disappear.

After the match, even the losing wrestler did a winning thing. He congratulated Mitch's dad, told him to stay strong. While Mitch, on the other hand, had far fewer words. He held his dad. Just held him.



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Mitch hugs his dad after the match.
Vanessa Schlueter
"For him to do it, for me, it was very emotional," Steve McKee said. "All the emotions you could ever have were right there."
 Asked if he forgot he was sick, Steve quipped, "Was I?"

"Yeah, life was definitely perfect at that moment, you know?" Mitch said. "I just wanted to stay right there forever."

Mitch McKee definitely did right by his dad. But he had one thing all wrong. He thought he needed a huge victory to make his dad feel better, when all he really needed was the love behind it.
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Netflix Pick: The Ben Carson Story: Gifted Hands

We watched this film some time ago. Quite a comeback story. Now there is a move afoot to draft Dr. Carson to run for president.